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I’m back to writing, finally! Or Why I need to stop letting douche-bags distract me from my true passions!

So it’s been a while since I’ve posted anything on my Blog. Which I know really disappoints my loyal followers. Hi mum!

And the reason, as you’ve probably gleaned from the very ambiguous title was an ill fated almost relationship. Anyone who knows me and knows me on Facebook knows that I don’t like to air my dirty laundry in public. It’s mostly just cute cats! But since this is related to writing and I won’t be mentioning any names (mine OR his) be forewarned that I’m about to let rip!

So this guy, you know the type. He pays for things, compliments you, fakes a future with you. Tells you your special, he’s never had such a connection with anyone! Blah blah blah blah blah! Then all of a sudden he’s cancelling dates with you, using shitty excuses and “his ex is screwing with his head.” He wants you to feel compassion for him. “She’s some nasty piece of work” he claims. She doesn’t get me like you do! How about you don’t be in contact with her anymore then you stupid knob-head?!!!

Don’t worry though I’m not a complete idiot. As soon as the alarm bells began to ring in my head, mostly screaming at me, “HE”S NOT OVER HIS EX!” I took action. I told him in no uncertain terms that I am not going to be anyone’s rebound girl or second option. I told him to sort his issues out with his ex and to NOT contact me until he had. That week was tough! I agonized over my decision, I wondered if I had done the right thing. I was SEVERELY tempted to contact him, I just had to know what was going on. For closure or something, I don’t know… Continue reading I’m back to writing, finally! Or Why I need to stop letting douche-bags distract me from my true passions!